Sunday 29 September 2019

Peace...



www.allposters.co.uk

Father, Mother, God,

Thank you for your presence during the hard and mean days.
For then we have you to lean upon.

Thank you for your presence during the bright and sunny days.
For then we can share that which we have with those who have less.

And thank you for your presence during the Holy Days.
For then we are able to celebrate you and our families and our friends

For those who have no voice, we ask you to speak.

For those who feel unworthy, we ask you to pour your love out in waterfalls of tenderness.

For those who live in pain, we ask you to bathe them in the river of your healing.

For those who are lonely, we ask you to keep them company.

For those who are depressed, we ask you to shower upon them the light of hope.

Dear Creator, You, the borderless sea of substance, we ask you to give to all the world that which we need most.....PEACE.

Maya Angelou
(4th April 1928 - 28th May 2014)

Friday 27 September 2019

Hubby's knobbly knees!

image from Clipart Library
To be fair, Adrian doesn't really have knobbly knees ~ dodgy ones, yes, but not knobbly 😉

A few years ago he had to have an op on his right knee because of torn cartilage.  Thankfully it was a success but now he is having the same issues with his left knee.  He puts it down to all the running he used to do when he was younger, blaming pounding the pavements of Hitchin for the damage!  He's had an x-ray which showed that there is indeed some damage to the knee, and was put on the waiting list for an op to clean out the joint and probably trim the cartilage too.  With the current state of the NHS he was resigned to a considerable wait, not least because he would be having the surgery in Aberdeen.  So you can imagine how delighted he was to get a phone call from Balfour Hospital to say that because of the long waiting list for Aberdeen, his op could now be done in Kirkwall and was due to take place on the 15th August.

However on the 14th he had a phone call from the Anaesthetist.  She wasn't very happy for the op to take place because of other issues Adrian is having.  He has been getting pins and needles/numbness in his fingers and hands for some time now, and has been seeing the Physiotherapist at our GP surgery.  It's been a bit of a mystery as to what has been causing this as Adrian hasn't been showing weakness for example in pushing against the physio's hands, etc.  The upshot has been that whilst the physio gave him daily exercises to do (for his knee as well), he also requested an MRI scan on Adrian's shoulders and neck ~ which would be in Aberdeen.  The Anaesthetist explained that his muscles would, obviously, be completely relaxed under anaesthetic, and she was concerned that more damage might be caused when he was moved during the op if there were serious issues with his neck/spine.  At that point, Adrian hadn't yet heard anything about a date for the MRI and she said that the Consultant would specifically request that the scan be done as soon as possible.  So, the knee op was put on hold.

Amazingly, Adrian received a letter with the date of his MRI scan the next day ~ nothing to do with the Consultant, as it happened, judging by the date of said letter.  He was given two appointments, one for the scan and one to see another Physiotherapist but they were at different hospitals in Aberdeen with only half an hour between them!  Adrian phoned to query this but the hospital had already recognised that they had made an error with the times.  He was given a new date with the appointments spaced much more sensibly.

The downside to having to travel to Aberdeen for hospital appointments is that the flight arrangements have to be made by one's GP surgery, and the tendency is for the return journey to be booked on the last flight out of Aberdeen.  Don't get me wrong, I do understand the logic in this with the chance of appointments over-running, but in Adrian's case this would have meant him waiting around for several hours as his appointments were both in the morning.  I suggested that he ask at the airport if it would be possible for his return journey to be changed to the afternoon flight, which it was.  In the end, this proved to be most fortuitous as the flights were considerably delayed ~ in the end, he got home at much the same time as he would have done had he been on that last flight!

Anyhoo, the MRI scan didn't show anything untoward, just the normal wear and tear to be expected of a 60 year old.  The Physiotherapist said that the pins and needles/numbness were most likely being caused by mild carpal tunnel and bad posture.  It's a relief that there is nothing more serious going on.

The knee op is now back on track, and Adrian had a phone call from the Balfour earlier in the week to say that they could do it  next Wednesday.  Fingers crossed that it will be as successful as his previous op on the right knee ~ I'll keep you up-to-date with progress!   

Thursday 26 September 2019

Disturbed - The Sound Of Silence

I came across this sometime ago.  A friend posted it on her Facebook timeline today which reminded me how much I love this version, so I thought I'd share it with you guys too 💗

Wednesday 25 September 2019

Nothing to see here...



just a dog draped across the corner of his bed!  Matty spends as much time with his bottom hanging off his bed as he does laying on it "properly".  He will often have his back end precariously balanced on the edge, and eventually gravity takes over and his bum hits the floor!  He always looks most surprised even though it happens time-after-time 😄



He turned 12 this month and although he does have the occasional bouncing-around-like-a-puppy moment, it's obvious that his age and health conditions are catching up with him.  He has had kidney issues for a few years now, hence his special low protein diet, along with a heart murmur, high blood pressure, scoliosis, and dodgy eyes and legs 😟  He takes an assortment of medications, including long term painkillers, and sometimes I feel like a pharmacist when I prepare all the tablets he takes with his breakfast!  He recently had his usual six-month check-up and as he had lost about 2kg since his last check-up it was decided that he should have his blood and urine checked.  The results confirmed that his kidneys definitely aren't functioning terribly well.  He is struggling more with his legs, too, seemingly able to trip over thin air.


And yet, despite how awful that all sounds, he is a happy boy.  He sleeps even more than ever (greyhounds are great sleepers!) but still likes his twice-daily gentle strolls.  He ambles along much more slowly these days and we don't take him far, but it's plain that he still loves checking out every blade of grass and stone along the way.  I know the day is coming ever-closer when we will have to make the heart-rending decision to let him go.  In the meantime we are making the most of however long is left of his twilight years and just enjoying his company.

Little words of wisdom


Sunday 22 September 2019

Peace...



www.allposters.co.uk

Father, Mother, God,

Thank you for your presence during the hard and mean days.
For then we have you to lean upon.

Thank you for your presence during the bright and sunny days.
For then we can share that which we have with those who have less.

And thank you for your presence during the Holy Days.
For then we are able to celebrate you and our families and our friends

For those who have no voice, we ask you to speak.

For those who feel unworthy, we ask you to pour your love out in waterfalls of tenderness.

For those who live in pain, we ask you to bathe them in the river of your healing.

For those who are lonely, we ask you to keep them company.

For those who are depressed, we ask you to shower upon them the light of hope.

Dear Creator, You, the borderless sea of substance, we ask you to give to all the world that which we need most.....PEACE.

Maya Angelou
(4th April 1928 - 28th May 2014)

Sunday 15 September 2019

A bit of a saga!

image from Clipart Library

As I said in an earlier post, we travelled south at the beginning of August.  Neither of us really enjoy flying to be honest, much preferring to let the train take the strain, and as we are retired we have plenty of free time.  Plus it's much more cost-effective for us as Adrian worked in the rail industry for 39 years and is entitled to reduced rate (and a certain amount of free) travel, which I am too as his spouse.

So we set off from home on the Thursday morning, catching the Northlink ferry MV Hamnavoe which sails from the ferry terminal literally just a few minutes down the street from where we live.  We've been lucky that up to now we have never had a bad crossing between Stromness and Scrabster but I guess there is bound to be a trip at some point that will be a bit more bumpy LOL  We booked a taxi to meet us at the terminal in Scrabster before we set off as it was a bit tight time-wise with the train connection from Thurso.

I suppose it is quite a long train journey down to Inverness, around 3 3/4 hours, but we find that it doesn't really drag as there is lovely scenery along much of the route.  This train gets us into Inverness with plenty of time to have some dinner before boarding the sleeper.

We were really looking forward to travelling down to London on the new Caledonian sleeper trains.  Alas, the new rolling stock has had a fair few "teething" problems since it was supposed to come into service back in April.  It is now running on the Lowlander route, but still hasn't yet come into service on the Highlander route.  Most disappointing, not least because the old trains really are well past their best these days.  Hopefully the next time we travel down the new sleepers will finally be in service from Inverness too.  The sleeper leaves Inverness about 8.45pm and gets into London Euston around 7.50am.  The journey is a bit clanky at times but I do manage to sleep fairly well.

Once we get into London, we are looking to travel back out again LOL  So it was a short walk along the Euston Road to London St Pancras station to catch a train to Hitchin, where my Dad was waiting to pick us up.  We spent Friday at my parents' (Beverly was already there as she had flown down the day before); it was nice to catch up as we hadn't seen them since the family all came up here last year for Mum's 80th birthday 😊

On the Saturday, the day of Mum and Dad's anniversary, we all decamped to Hitchin.  Mum, Dad, Amanda and Liz were staying for the weekend at Hitchin Priory Hotel; Adrian, Beverly and myself were booked into The Sun Hotel until the Thursday.  Sam, of course, still lives in Hitchin so he only had a short walk from his flat into town.  The anniversary dinner was at Hitchin Priory on the Saturday evening.  We had a private room and the meal was nice enough.  On Sunday we had a family lunch there.  Again the meal itself was fine but the service was pretty slow.  None of us were impressed with the disabled toilet facilities ~ which were pretty much non-existant!  The only toilet on the ground floor of the building was the gents, which meant that anyone with a physical disability had to ask a member of staff to "stand guard" so that they were able to use a cubicle in there!  Wheelchair access into the building was poor too.

The three of us staying at The Sun Hotel weren't that impressed with our accommodation either, sadly.  The hotel is a very old building, originally a coaching inn dating from the 16th century, so one expects that there are difficulties with incorporating modern amenities (although to be fair, they do have disabled toilet facilities on the ground floor for both ladies and gents!).  It is a rabbit warren of a building, with long winding corridors and lots of stairs to the various bedroom areas.  The rooms were clean enough, but Beverly's en-suite bathroom was not in good condition having a fair bit of mould on the ceiling.  What was more disappointing was the dining aspect.  Breakfast was really chaotic, with items running out and hotel guests having to actually find members of staff.  Lunch wasn't too bad but the evening meals were very variable.  I know in the scheme of things this is only a small thing, but I was amazed that for the whole time we stayed in the hotel there was no sparkling water available!  The hotel was plainly short-staffed and in need of updating.  It's such a shame as whilst the hotel has always been a wee bit shabby around the edges, the food and service has always been very good.

To be honest, the next time we go down to Hitchin we will most likely book into the Premier Inn!

Still, it was lovely to spend time with family and friends.  Beverly and I went to visit my friend Olive, who lives over the road from our old house, and it was so nice to have a good chin-wag and catch up with the latest news from the neighbourhood.  I do miss Olive, I must confess.  Our old house looks much the same.  It was a bit odd, whilst we were waiting for the taxi to take us back into town, to be standing outside the house knowing it didn't belong to us anymore.  We had lunch with Caroline, who lived in the house next door to us (she moved to another part of Hitchin the same week that we moved) ~ we became good friends whilst we were neighbours and hopefully she will be coming up to visit us soon.  We also had dinner with more friends, Christine and John.  Christine and I worked in the same office and have known each other for a long time, since before I had the gruesome twosome in fact!  She and John want to come up to visit too; it will be lovely to have folk coming to see where we have made our new home 😊

  Weather-wise it was much warmer than we have got used to living here LOL  To be fair, it could have been much worse as a week or so before we travelled down the temperatures were in the 30s!  It felt still hot enough, though.  Hitchin has changed a little in the 18 months or so since we moved, with some shops having closed down and new ones opening up.  It has the feel of a somewhat "younger" town these days, and seems more geared up to young professionals.  I think it is probably an attractive place to live for younger folk as it's only about a 30 minute or so commute into London, with property prices/rents being lower.

Dad picked us up from the hotel on the Thursday and we spent the day with them, travelling back into London to catch the sleeper in the evening.  Whilst we were waiting on Hitchin station Sam sent a text to say that Euston was in chaos!  By the time we got there, the station gates had been temporarily closed as there had been an electrical failure somewhere near Camden, I believe.  The trains weren't running, and in the end there were a fair few delays and cancellations.  We had visions of the flippin sleeper not running but in the end it was only about 30 minutes late leaving Euston and made up the time overnight, getting into Inverness more or less on time.

We had some time to kill at Inverness so I sat at the station with the luggage, reading and people-watching, whilst Adrian went for a little walk and got sandwiches, etc, for lunch on the train to Thurso.  Unfortunately the trains don't really marry up at all well with the ferry, so we had more time to kill in Thurso.  Even more unfortunate was the fact that the weather was horrible!  We had made a rookie mistake in only taking "shower proof" jackets away with us and they were definitely not man enough for the rain hammering down LOL  We got awfully wet just walking from the station down into the town area ~ it wasn't really raining when we started our little trek but by 'eck it certainly was by the time we made it to shelter 😮

Thurso station was closed when the train got there, I suppose they are short-staffed too.  So the toilets were locked and everyone had to leave the area from the back exit.  I was quite shocked by how "sad" Thurso has become even in the couple of years since I was last passed through.  It must be quite depressing for the folk who live there with so little, it seems, in the way of amenities.  Even the museum has closed, apparently because Dounray has withdrawn its funding.  We had planned on having a hot drink and a bite to eat in the museum cafe, not to mention making use of the loo facilities, but had to look elsewhere.  Fortunately, there was a cafe open not far from the museum so we were able to dry out a little bit.  Unfortunately for us, said cafe closed at 4pm so we had to venture out into the rain once more.  We phoned for a taxi to take us down to the waiting area for car drivers as the check-in area at the terminal didn't open until 5pm ~ or so we thought!  The walk from the car waiting area to the terminal is about 10 minutes.....in the pouring rain and with a howling wind blowing in from the sea it felt much longer!  The hood of my jacket is so big, even with the toggles pulled tight, it kept pushing my glasses down my streaming wet face.  In the end, I had to take them off as I was worried they would fall off completely so I was walking along head down, with no specs on, and just hoping I made it in one piece LOL

It was a blessed relief to finally reach the check-in area.....only to find that the doors were locked with a notice saying it wouldn't be open until 5.30pm.  In the end it was a good 10 minutes later than that before the staff finally turned up, by which time we were cold, still wet and rather grumpy.  The first thing I did was grab some dry clothes from my suitcase and march into the ladies to change!  Oh, the bliss of dry trousers, top and jacket!  Thankfully, and somewhat surprisingly, the crossing was pretty smooth.  I had phoned for a taxi to meet us from the ferry terminal in Stromness and to be frank it was a relief to finally be back home!

So there you have the epic saga of our trek down south, my lovlies ~ hopefully the next trip will be much smoother 😄      

Peace...



www.allposters.co.uk

Father, Mother, God,

Thank you for your presence during the hard and mean days.
For then we have you to lean upon.

Thank you for your presence during the bright and sunny days.
For then we can share that which we have with those who have less.

And thank you for your presence during the Holy Days.
For then we are able to celebrate you and our families and our friends

For those who have no voice, we ask you to speak.

For those who feel unworthy, we ask you to pour your love out in waterfalls of tenderness.

For those who live in pain, we ask you to bathe them in the river of your healing.

For those who are lonely, we ask you to keep them company.

For those who are depressed, we ask you to shower upon them the light of hope.

Dear Creator, You, the borderless sea of substance, we ask you to give to all the world that which we need most.....PEACE.

Maya Angelou
(4th April 1928 - 28th May 2014)

Friday 13 September 2019

A red letter day!

image from Clipart Portal
For the whole time we've lived here we have cooked using a mini oven and two-ring electric hob.  We had built-in appliances at our old house so didn't have anything to bring with us.  Before we moved, we decided to get the mini oven as a stop-gap to tide us over until we'd decided what to do with the kitchen.  As it turned out, the flippin thing can only be used as either an oven or the top plate, not both together *sigh*  Hence the need for the separate hob.  I have hated using both appliances and Adrian has done the bulk of the cooking since we moved as I found it just so frustrating!  The oven temperature is not all that reliable and the hob takes forever to heat up!  


But today was indeed a red letter day...  


as our new cooker was delivered and wired-in 😃  Who knew it would be so exciting to get a new cooker LOL  I'm so looking forward to getting back into cooking, and baking, too ~ and this year we'll be having a proper Christmas dinner complete with homemade Christmas puddings, which I'm sure will please Beverly no end 😉 Shug very kindly came out yesterday to cut a gap in the worktop and he has finished it off so nicely too.

We also had to replace our old fridge/freezer shortly before we went down south as it was on it's last legs and I don't think it really liked the journey up here to be honest.  Mind you, it had done pretty well ~ we calculated that it was well over 20 years old!  We looked at various fridge/freezer options but in the end we decided to buy separate ones, which has given us a lot more storage space and also means that I will be able to do bulk cooking.

With all the little issues that have come to light since we started work on St Abbs, it's going to be quite some time before we can have anything major done in the kitchen.  As you can see from the photos above the kitchen has been wallpapered (I can hear you all asking why anyone would put up paper in a kitchen; trust me, I've asked myself that a fair few times as well LOL) and it's pretty grubby-looking.  When we had the electrics done to accommodate the new cooker, Ray told us that the wall where the cooker is (and, I suspect, two of the other walls also) has had hardboard fixed over wooden cladding ~ probably the original cladding.  On the opposite side of the kitchen, horizontal cladding has been fixed over the original vertical cladding!  So much easier, surely, to simply paint the original cladding ~ and so much easier to keep clean too!

Anyhoo, we've decided that we will strip the wallpaper and hopefully whatever is beneath will be okay enough to slap some emulsion on LOL  I'm not too sure when we will be getting round to doing it but I'll be sure to take plenty of photos as the work progresses.....she says, keeping her fingers crossed that she remembers to actually do so 😉

Thursday 12 September 2019

60 years.....

and never a cross word plenty of cross words over that vast expanse of time 😂

Just a few photos taken at Mum and Dad's 60th wedding anniversary dinner at Hitchin Priory on 3rd August.


The happy couple 😊


Amanda, Adrian, Sam and Dad...


Beverly, Joan and Liz (and the back of Adrian's head LOL)


The lovely table arrangement was a gift from Liz and Joan


Amanda sorted out the cake, which was a gift from the both of us


Liz...


Joan...


my girlie, Beverly...


Mum...


Dad...


my boy, Sam...


hubby, Adrian (I really like this photo 😍)...


my little sis, Amanda...


and your's truly ~ for once, a half-decent photo!


Mum and Dad cutting their cake the next day 😊

Wednesday 11 September 2019

Helloooooo!

image from Clipart Library

Yep, I'm still alive and kicking!  I've just found it really hard to get back into blogging and I don't know why to be honest.  I do so admire folk like John at Going Gently who seem to be able to blog virtually every day.  John in particular has a wonderful knack of making all his posts seem like one is having a chat with an old friend.  He may not be blogging about anything earth-shattering or sensational but nevertheless I greatly enjoy reading his blog each day.  As I say, it's like catching up with what's been going on in the life of a dear friend 😊

So what, I hear you ask, has been going on in your life recently Sharon??  Well, my lovlies, it feels like not very much has been going on at all to be honest!  July was a bit of a wasted month as I felt pretty unwell for a good part of it.  I think I have already told you that I managed to pick up a stomach bug, which made me feel rather poorly and washed-out.  And hot on the heals of that came a very nasty cough and cold.  I felt absolutely dreadful for almost a week, almost like having 'flu, and the cough seemed to go on forever.  To be honest, I'm still coughing occasionally but that may also be down to all the dust that has been flying about St Abbs recently!

Actually, I was getting a bit concerned about whether I would be feeling fit enough to travel south at the beginning of August, as it was my parents' 60th wedding anniversary.  Thankfully I was able to make the journey down to Bedfordshire (quite a trek from here!) okay but did find it pretty exhausting.  It was a good bit warmer down there too than we have become used to living up here, but at least we missed the really hot spell they had ~ it could have been a lot worse!  It was nice catching up with family and friends though, as it had been a year since the family had been up here for Mum's 80th birthday.

The roof on my craft shed has finally been finished ~ I don't know who was more pleased, me or Chris 😉  The weather has really not been at all conducive to fibreglassing but we eventually got a couple of good days.  I'm pretty relieved to be honest as I really didn't want to go through the autumn and winter with the roof unfinished.

Work has started on the downstairs bathroom.  Needless to say it hasn't been smooth-sailing ~ post to follow!

We've been building flat-pack shelving for the store room and garden shed.  I'm sure you can imagine the fun we've had with that!  It all seems so simple and reasonable, just slip the tabs into the slots.....yeah, right!  The bloody tabs kept popping out through the back instead of simply dropping down through the slots.  Lots of swearing and frustration ensued but we got there in the end 😉

A fair bit of sorting and downsizing of possessions has been going on (causing a lot of the dust I mentioned earlier!) in the guest bedroom, followed by trips to the local charity shops ~ thank you Lyndi for being our delivery driver for the day 😄

Likewise, more sorting of crates in the dining room and porch ~ generating, of course, even more dust "sigh"  I'm really pleased to have finally got the job done, though, as I hadn't really got to grips with all my cleaning supplies since we moved here!  Most of what is now in the porch is what will be stored out there when we finally get the room done, the plan being to have a run of kitchen units to store bulk cleaning supplies, loo paper, etc.  In our old house the back door opened into a lean-to fitted out with shelving where we stored all that sort of thing.  St Abbs has a distinct lack of storage space, hence the plans for the porch.  By the way, in case you are wondering the store room is destined to be filled with diy-type stuff, plus the electric garden equipment.

No sooner had I got the dining room looking nice than it was overtaken by the stuff for the downstairs bathroom, so no photos to show of my sterling efforts in there ~ hopefully, though, it won't be too many weeks before I can show it off again LOL

The front garden has started to go wild 😡 but now that I'm feeling okay again I'm planning to get going out there once more.  We have done some rearranging in the back though ~ more to follow on that in a later post.

Phew, I think that's just about brought you up-to-date with recent life here at St Abbs!  I guess there's been more going on than I realised LOL   

Little words of wisdom


Sunday 8 September 2019

Peace...



www.allposters.co.uk

Father, Mother, God,

Thank you for your presence during the hard and mean days.
For then we have you to lean upon.

Thank you for your presence during the bright and sunny days.
For then we can share that which we have with those who have less.

And thank you for your presence during the Holy Days.
For then we are able to celebrate you and our families and our friends

For those who have no voice, we ask you to speak.

For those who feel unworthy, we ask you to pour your love out in waterfalls of tenderness.

For those who live in pain, we ask you to bathe them in the river of your healing.

For those who are lonely, we ask you to keep them company.

For those who are depressed, we ask you to shower upon them the light of hope.

Dear Creator, You, the borderless sea of substance, we ask you to give to all the world that which we need most.....PEACE.

Maya Angelou
(4th April 1928 - 28th May 2014)

Sunday 1 September 2019

Peace...



www.allposters.co.uk

Father, Mother, God,

Thank you for your presence during the hard and mean days.
For then we have you to lean upon.

Thank you for your presence during the bright and sunny days.
For then we can share that which we have with those who have less.

And thank you for your presence during the Holy Days.
For then we are able to celebrate you and our families and our friends

For those who have no voice, we ask you to speak.

For those who feel unworthy, we ask you to pour your love out in waterfalls of tenderness.

For those who live in pain, we ask you to bathe them in the river of your healing.

For those who are lonely, we ask you to keep them company.

For those who are depressed, we ask you to shower upon them the light of hope.

Dear Creator, You, the borderless sea of substance, we ask you to give to all the world that which we need most.....PEACE.

Maya Angelou
(4th April 1928 - 28th May 2014)